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Mastering the Art of the Perfect Event Selfie

Mastering the Art of the Perfect Event Selfie

The show floor at a conference or event like XBIZ or X3 is a unique world, full of industry professionals and endless opportunities for connection. It’s a space where networking happens, where outfits make statements — and where knowing just how to capture and broadcast these unforgettable moments can make your social media feed truly come alive.

As a veteran nightlife/event photographer experienced with doing creator outreach for APClips, I don’t think I am exaggerating when I say that I have mastered the art of capturing candid photos and selfies in these environments. Here are the selfie queen’s top tips for anyone who wants to do the same!

It’s the photos and videos that feel effortless and memorable that make your audience feel like they’re a part of your life.

Find the Magic in Behind-the-Scenes Content

BTS content offers a personal glimpse into the event experience and allows your audience to connect with you on a more authentic level. Fans love candid shots that capture real-life environments and unguarded moments when your genuine personality shines through. That could mean a mirror selfie of your outfit, random shots of the event you’re attending or simple selfies with other creators. This type of footage resonates because it feels natural, real and unfiltered — exactly what audiences are looking for.

BTS shots are also opportunities for engagement. They allow you to tag others, share reposts and connect with new audiences while building a personal connection with your followers. When documenting these moments, aim to stay light and spontaneous rather than overly planned. The best behind-the-scenes moments are always the most unexpected.

Pack the Essentials

You don’t need an entire production studio to get great shots on the show floor. With the right portable gear, you can elevate your photo game without carrying an entire kit around.

Pack a compact LED light or a clip-on ring light, like those freebies they pass out at expos. Lighting can make all the difference at events with super-dim settings, and those small lights can be a lifesaver.

Also, don’t forget to bring a fully charged power bank — and charging cable. Shooting photos and videos can drain your phone battery fast. Having a power source on hand ensures that you won’t run out of juice mid-shoot.

Bear in mind, you want to keep everything lightweight, portable and versatile, especially if you’re attending an awards show. If it can fit in a small bag or purse, it’s totally worth having.

Make Photo Ops Easy

At industry expos and events, you’ll likely meet a lot of new people, some of whom might already be on your social radar. When it comes to grabbing group shots or selfies with new faces, approach with confidence and kindness. A sincere compliment works wonders and helps break the ice, which can naturally lead to a selfie moment.

Remember, however, that consent is key. If someone isn’t comfortable taking a photo, respect their boundaries and move on. Photos should always feel easy and fun, not awkward or intrusive. 

Understand What to Share and Where to Share It

While you may have a lot of great moments to share, not every photo belongs on your main feed. Your Instagram and TikTok feeds are great spaces for high-energy, polished and professional shots. Think about sharing moments that summarize your event experience or showcase standout outfits and highlights from the day.

On the other hand, casual moments are perfect for IG Stories. They’re temporary, fun and casual — ideal for connecting with your audience without overwhelming your main feed.

It’s also worth considering where to “draw the line” with your content. Only share moments you’re comfortable with and prioritize thoughtful sharing. Avoid posting private moments or shots — and sometimes locations — that could compromise someone’s privacy without their consent. Always maintain professionalism and respect for others.

Tag and Repost

How you share matters just as much as what you share. Tagging others can amplify the reach of your posts. Tagging people and events allows your audience and the audiences of those you tag to discover your content more easily.

Reposting is another great way to extend your reach. When someone tags you in a post, share it with your audience to boost visibility and strengthen connections. Engagement should always be a two-way street.

Stay Authentic and Approachable

The best social media content is rarely staged. Social media thrives on authenticity. Your followers love knowing there’s a real person behind the posts, so let your phone capture the story as it unfolds in a genuine way.

Don’t overthink your shots. Instead, focus on candid, fun, natural moments that capture the vibe of the event. Embrace imperfections, let your personality shine and aim for approachable realness. It’s the photos and videos that feel effortless and memorable that make your audience feel like they’re a part of your life.

Event photography and selfies aren’t about beautiful lighting or perfect poses. They’re about telling your story, sharing your experience and connecting with your audience. You don’t need the latest gear, the most followers or a massive social media strategy. Just keep it light, stay authentic and remember that the best photos capture moments with personality and real energy.

Rae Threat is a content producer, photographer and head of creator outreach at APClips. Find her @raethreat on Instagram, X and Bluesky, or at threat.tv.

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