Whether your customer has mobility or stamina challenges or is simply looking to try a creative new position, their new best friend in the bedroom can likely be found in the many styles of position support devices available on the market. New designs and more affordable options are landing in stores all the time. These sturdy, comfortable items can elevate limbs, hold partners in place, alleviate tired muscles and much more. They not only enhance sexual experiences but also promote inclusivity, allowing individuals of all abilities to enjoy fulfilling and pleasurable intimate moments. However, increasingly price-conscious consumers may overlook these versatile items — unless we have open, frank conversations about how they can enhance anyone’s sex life.
Who are position support products for?
By incorporating position support devices into their intimate lives, couples can explore new positions, reduce discomfort and enjoy a more satisfying sexual experience.
Absolutely every sexually active adult can benefit in some way by using support products. Whether employing one or a combination of options, these items can open doors to exciting new positions, support bodies with physical challenges, or facilitate a fulfilling experience for folks with extreme limitations due to disability. Determining the needed support level can help guide the conversation and identify which items to start with or prioritize.
Types of Position Support Products
1. Wedges and ramps are versatile additions to any bedroom. These items can prop a partner’s hips in the air, providing support and creating a comfortable position for missionary sex. Wedges and ramps also reduce strain on the back and hips by offering stability and elevation, making it easier to maintain certain positions for extended periods. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals with chronic pain or limited mobility.
2. Hammocks, swings and slings bring an element of adventure to the bedroom, offering vertical position options and supporting horizontal ones. These devices can enhance intimacy by allowing partners to explore different angles and positions that might be challenging on a flat surface. Slings provide support for the hips or legs, enabling deeper penetration and reducing the physical effort required from both partners. This can be a game changer for individuals with disabilities or those recovering from injuries.
3. Soft spreader bars keep a partner’s legs apart without causing discomfort. They can be used to maintain positions that might otherwise be difficult to hold, enhancing access and pleasure. For individuals with muscle weakness or joint issues, soft spreader bars provide the necessary support to enjoy various positions without exerting excessive effort.
4. Hook-and-loop pads that accommodate and support bullets, dildos or wands can be used with any hook-and-loop surface. Add one to a wedge pillow or a door-jamb swing for solo play or exciting dual-penetration possibilities. Combining thigh slings, wedges and play pads can create stable positions to leverage a variety of toys for comfortable, hands-free exploration.
5. Protector linens such as sex sheets or blankets help keep surfaces dry and clean, allowing couples to focus on pleasure without worrying about messes. A fitted sex sheet or a specially purposed throw blanket can add grip to your surface. Some are even compatible with hook-and-loop accessories like play pads or cuff anchors.
Position Possibilities
Numerous positions can be achieved using adaptive devices. Product packaging often showcases only one or two, but the possibilities are nearly endless. A person does not need a disability or limitation to benefit from these products.
For receiver-on-top positions, add a wedge pillow under the bottom partner’s knees to provide a stable seat for the rider. Or combine two wedge pillows to support and lift the receiver’s hips while stabilizing their torso, which drapes downward for rear-entry penetration. In a missionary position, use a soft spreader bar or a sling behind the top partner’s shoulders, using the cuffs or loops to hold the receiver’s legs up. Add a wedge pillow underneath for bonus comfort and support.
Wrapping a doggy-style strap or another sling under the bottom partner can help the top partner draw them upward. When lying side by side and spooning, which can be a very low-impact way to get close, an inflatable wedge can be great for adjusting a partner's height for better positioning. A doggy-style strap, sling or soft spreader bar can also be looped around one or both partners, helping them to hold each other close comfortably. This is great for rear-entry penetration or even for a modified 69.
For those struggling with horizontal positioning, a door-jamb sling or swing can provide support and stabilization in upright positions. A thigh strap-on that holds a bullet, wand or dildo can provide options for those who need or prefer to be seated during sex. Placing the strap high on the thigh, well above the knee, ensures a sturdy and supportive position without risk to fragile knee joints.
Creative Possibilities + Accessibility = Fun and Profit
Most oversized support items have non-sex uses, too. A ramp pillow can be comfortable for sitting upright in bed, reading or scrolling on your phone. Slings and swings can be incorporated into regular stretching or exercise routines. Protective linens are soft and comfortable, and their moisture-wicking ability can be fantastic for sweaty sleepers. Throw blankets are luxuriously cozy for cuddling any time.
By incorporating position support devices into their intimate lives, couples can explore new positions, reduce discomfort and enjoy a more satisfying sexual experience. For individuals with disabilities, these products provide the support needed to engage in fulfilling sexual activities, contributing to overall well-being and happiness.
Offering a few new ideas can often open a creative floodgate for your shopper. Once they begin to grasp the many possibilities, they will quickly recognize the value in adding support items to their pleasure arsenal!
Corrinne Musick is a 10-year adult retail veteran who has worked in every store position from sales associate to general manager. As a brand ambassador for Sportsheets, she brings her passion for end-user satisfaction to her mission of spreading the word about the company’s historic, current and future innovations in connecting romantic partners.
